
新闻摘要:宁夏回族自治区吴忠市利通区近年来推进移风易俗,越来越多年轻人和家庭在婚事上选择简办、节俭。当地有新人把彩礼象征性收取或实行零彩礼,婚礼以温馨实用为主,节省下的钱用于未来生活安排或孩子的满月礼,典型案例如任瑞玺、刘丽,以及高闸镇的秦磊、张铭慧等。
推动这种变化的是基层志愿者和组织的长期努力。辖区内的“新红娘”志愿服务队上门解疑、红白理事会规范操办,及时制止超标准操办。今年利通区585对新人中有350户低彩礼、27户零彩礼,平均彩礼降至约7.8万元,显示出婚嫁观念正在向朴素和务实转变。
思考与启发:婚礼本是人生的起点,不应成为沉重负担。朴素的办事方式让年轻人能把精力和资源放在共同经营生活、打拼事业上,也让父母更多成为支持的力量,而不是压力的来源。
天经里提醒人看重内心所向,这与当下的变化相呼应:把心思放在共同生活与互助上,比追求一时的排场更能长久养护一家人的安稳与幸福。
经文:因为你的财宝在哪里,你的心也在哪里。《引支勒·马太卷 6:21》
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Title: Returning Weddings to SimplicityNews Summary
In recent years the Litong District of Wuzhong City, Ningxia Hui Autonomous Region, has been encouraging people to change old customs. More and more young couples and their families are choosing modest, frugal weddings. Some couples now ask for only a symbolic bride price or even none at all. Their ceremonies focus on warmth and practicality, and the money saved is put toward future needs—such as household expenses or a baby’s one‑month celebration. Typical examples include couples like Ren Ruixi and Liu Li, as well as Qin Lei and Zhang Minghui from Gaozha Town.
This shift has been driven by the persistent work of grassroots volunteers and organizations. The local “New Matchmaker” volunteer team visits families to answer questions, while the Red‑White Committee (a traditional wedding‑planning group) helps keep ceremonies within reasonable limits and stops extravagant practices. This year, out of 585 newlyweds in Litong, 350 families received a low bride price and 27 received none at all. The average bride price fell to about ¥78,000 (roughly US $11,000), showing a clear move toward simpler, more realistic wedding attitudes.
Reflection and Insight
A wedding should mark the beginning of a life together, not become a crushing financial burden. A modest approach lets young people devote their energy and resources to building a shared home and pursuing their careers. It also lets parents act as sources of support rather than sources of pressure.
The Bible reminds us to treasure what truly matters in our hearts. This current trend echoes that truth: focusing on a life of mutual care and partnership brings lasting peace and happiness far beyond any fleeting display of wealth.
Scripture
“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
— Matthew 6:21 (NIV)
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